After working with personal shoppers for 27 years, I’ve accomplished many non-traditional issues past providing them funding recommendation. I’ve gone for runs; attended funerals, bar mitzvahs, and live shows; and even referred one shopper to a top-flight pro-sports surgeon when he dislocated his shoulder.
This 12 months, I mailed vacation playing cards to each shopper. It featured a photograph of my husband and me with our gigantic Bernese Mountain canine, Grace, all sporting our Santa hats — nicely, Grace refused to put on hers. A couple of days later I obtained this observe from one in every of my long-time shoppers:

Barbara,
Thanks for the fantastic card.
I really feel I want to fulfill the one “member of the household” that I’ve by no means had the privilege of trying within the eye.
Could 2023 be an excellent 12 months for you & Duncan.
All greatest,
(His identify)
This was the primary time I’ve had a shopper request a gathering with my canine! And naturally, I set it up instantly. Grace and I had an incredible go to with this beautiful couple, and we talked about subjects that had completely nothing to do with their funding portfolio. Grace was thrilled that they supplied her some rippled potato chips and many stomach rubs. What a enjoyable strategy to begin the New 12 months!
Listed here are seven extra shocking methods to bond with shoppers:
Maria Pia Leon, Director Consumer Providers, Forbes Household Belief, Miami
“A few years in the past, a long-time shopper requested me to assist him with a really totally different job: placing up and restoring a 1960 Rolls Royce. It was the automobile he had utilized in his marriage ceremony, and over time, it had deteriorated. I’ve at all times liked traditional automobiles, and I at all times had the loopy concept of engaged on a 1978 Porsche 911, so this request was not a lot out of my realm.
“The venture took us three years; then whereas he was visiting final summer season, we lastly went for a experience within the automobile. Simply the look on his face confirmed me that these three years of reviewing catalogs, auctions, and shade palettes have been so worthwhile. This entrepreneur embraced his ardour and helped a household custom proceed. As a trusted adviser, I see my position as serving to to maintain the wealth for generations, and for me, this features a automobile with that means whether it is a part of a household story. I’m happy this automobile shall be used for weddings and particular events of future generations.”

Blair duQuesnay, CFA, Lead Advisor, Protect, Ritholtz Wealth Administration, New Orleans
“Final fall I used to be planning on travelling to Southern California for an occasion, so I made a decision to succeed in out to a number of shoppers within the space to rearrange conferences. I had by no means met one in every of my newer shoppers in individual: We began working collectively in the beginning of the pandemic, so we had solely met just about. She is a single retired girl who lives alone in Northern San Diego County, which is sort of an extended drive — half-hour or so — from the place I used to be staying. I instructed her I’d search for a neighborhood resort and we might have dinner collectively. She stated, ‘Why don’t you simply stick with me?’
“Now possibly this might sound a bit bizarre, however I stated ‘Positive,’ and we ended up having a really relaxed time attending to know one another. She gave me a tour of her stunning property and backyard, we went to a not-fancy native place for dinner, and later we watched Netflix on her sofa collectively . . . identical to buddies. The subsequent morning, I drove again to LA with pomegranates and keenness fruit from her backyard. My daughter actually liked the fervour fruit!”
Kathrine Madsen, Senior Funding Advisor HNWI/UHNWI, Personal Banking Elite, Danske Financial institution, Copenhagen
“Once I began out on this enterprise 15 years in the past at age 28, recent out of Copenhagen Enterprise College, I used to be very self-conscious and at all times questioning if I used to be ok to do that job. Over time, I’ve realized that you could memorize P/E ratios however that received’t make you reliable. Both you will have a trusting relationship along with your shoppers otherwise you don’t. Belief has to return naturally. I like to present my shoppers a way of who I’m in actual life, not simply the company Kathrine.
“Through the pandemic, one in every of my wealthiest shoppers and I deepened our bond: We each had numerous time on our arms. Occasionally she would ship me LinkedIn profiles of males she deemed to be good potential for me so far. Then I shared together with her that I had taken on a massively difficult venture of renovating my kitchen all on my own. She stated ‘Oh how cool are you? Ship me some footage!’
“I’ve an built-in dishwasher, and it was a troublesome job getting it to suit correctly. The plate needed to completely match to the highest drawer of my kitchen desk. I used to be so excited that I aced it on the primary try! I filmed a video of this profitable scenario and texted it to my shopper. At age 28, I’d by no means ever have anticipated that I’d do one thing this odd, texting a video of my dishwasher to a serious shopper. It’s fascinating how these kind of relationships begin and the way they evolve.”

Guillaume Drouin Garneau, CIM, Portfolio Supervisor, RBC Dominion Securities, Montreal
“Along with being an funding adviser, I’m a passionate bicycle owner, in pursuit of journey, pushing my bodily and psychological boundaries to new ranges. I’m additionally the co-owner of Le Membership Espresso Bar, an internet retailer of premium biking manufacturers and a singular area providing an espresso bar and a boutique below the identical roof. Our mission is easy: To collect and develop the biking neighborhood, present a choice of high-quality biking manufacturers, and to increase the third wave of espresso, a motion to supply high-quality espresso.
“A couple of of my shoppers are very all for espresso, and one requested me to go to his residence and provides him an introductory crash course in how one can make barista-level espresso. I confirmed him how one can correctly arrange his new machine and all of the instruments and strategies for pouring. It was an incredible bonding expertise, and I now supply my assist to a couple of my different shoppers who’re captivated with espresso: This has turn into a parallel journey to my funding advisory apply.”
Coreen Sol, CFA, Senior Portfolio Supervisor, CIBC Wooden Gundy, Vancouver
“As many advisers will attest, our shoppers’ values and hopes over time naturally create an enriched relationship past the anticipated transactional duties of a fiduciary. For example, I’m constructing a neighborhood venture to have fun a household structure agency that has impacted town and is a part of the historical past and material of the area. Realizing them as shoppers all these years, I noticed the unimaginable impact of their work and their position in constructing the Okanagan area. They’ve designed very important buildings in most of the area’s civic and social centres, vital business developments, residential initiatives, faculties, and historic constructing restoration.
“I used to be impressed to acknowledge their work in a espresso desk e book stuffed with shiny pages of iconic images, early renderings, and tales of the neighborhood for the good thing about the individuals who stay there. Everybody on the venture shall be native consultants — from the photographers to the writer — and all of the proceeds help native charities.”

Tricia Leadbeater, CFA, Portfolio Supervisor, Richardson Wealth, Calgary
“I’ve offered my shoppers with journey ideas from native buddies in uncommon places starting from distant New Zealand to Barcelona; given referrals to artwork valuators and artwork restoration consultants; and I’ve hosted visitor audio system who’re true explorers and adventurers to be taught concerning the components of the world that solely a handful ever expertise. I deal with constructing neighborhood: Throughout our lockdown within the pandemic, I despatched an insider’s metropolis journey information for Calgary to shoppers so we might uplift our views and respect the chance to find uncommon and sudden places near residence, whereas we couldn’t journey overseas.
“This neighborhood constructing has benefited me personally. My residence metropolis, Calgary, suffered a giant flood in 2013, and I used to be very lucky to have had dozens of strangers and buddies assist me rapidly triage my home scenario. I used to be then capable of assist a shopper a couple of blocks away dig out her basement: an uncommon alternative to get to know her and her household higher. We proceed to be nice buddies to at the present time.”
Marguerita Cheng, CFP, Chief Govt Officer, Blue Ocean International Wealth, Washington, DC
“My shopper is a professor, and he’s on his toes so much: He was complaining to me about foot ache. I’m not a medical skilled, however he requested me how I deal with foot ache as a result of he is aware of I’m additionally on my toes so much. I instructed him that footwear are actually private. I listed a couple of manufacturers for him and talked about that my daughter skilled his precise sort of ache. From there I beneficial a particular sort of shoe and arch help for him, and I additionally instructed him that socks are actually necessary. I despatched him three totally different pairs of socks with a present receipt and a observe: He was welcome to trade them. He despatched me a message to say that not solely does he thank his monetary adviser for caring for his household, however now he has pleased toes. He instructed me that there’s no going again.
“The socks and different options have been a complete sport changer. I took the time to deal with the small print, and this allowed me to attach on a deeper degree. Socks could appear small, however shoppers know I’m listening and paying consideration.”
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